Hello, fellow tinkerer 👋 - Happy Wednesday. It's that time of year when I need a heavy blanket in the morning and air conditioning by afternoon (thanks, Chicagoland). But as I write this, I'm staring at a stunning red tree outside my office window. A friend of mine shared on Facebook that, having grown up in California, she's always awed by fall. I am also, and I've lived in this part of the country my whole life! I'm forever inspired by the changing seasons. 1) Reflection:My oldest started high school a few months ago, and if I thought my life was busy before... yeesh. It's a lot to keep track of everything. I've realized that I have to write everything down. Without question. I need to move things out of my brain and into some other format, otherwise I won't remember. And I've also had to think about other ways to give myself brain space, even if it's just a little bit. If you're feeling overwhelmed, try to think of ways to get things out of your head. Maybe it's writing them down. Maybe it's saying "no" to things that are no longer serving you. Maybe you can use tools and automation to free up some of your time (you know I'm a fan!) If you want some ideas, I wrote about tools to free up mental energy here. 2) Product:This may seem like a VERY small way to free up mental energy, but I love smart plugs. You can plug things like a lamp into a smart plug, and then put the plug on a timer. There are a ton of brands out there. I like smart plugs that connect to my Alexa devices, but many of them have their own apps. FOR EXAMPLE: Every morning, I wake up my middle child for school. His bedroom is in the basement, so it's initially dark and has a weird overhead lighting situation. I recently added a smart plug to a lamp in the basement and put it on a timer to turn on a few minutes before his wakeup time. This very small change has made my morning infinitely better. 3) Tip:In the book The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron (which I'm currently reading), she talks about Morning Pages — stream-of-consciousness writing. I've started a Morning Pages practice and have found it a really great way to get ideas out of my head. You can read more about Morning Pages on Cameron's website. Want more ideas?→ I'm going to be on a panel talking about "What Makes a Freelance Business Sustainable?" on October 25th at 10:00 am CT. You can sign up here. → My friend Katie Parrott wrote an essay about using ChatGPT as a career coach. Check it out here. → October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, something I talk about every year as a loss parent. I wrote about how to support people who are grieving, which you can check out here. ​ That's it for this issue of Tinkering! See you again in two weeks. Cheers, PS: If you like this newsletter and want to support it, here's what you can do! 1) Forward this newsletter to a friend. Sharing is caring. This newsletter may contain affiliate links, which means if you sign up, subscribe, buy, whatever, I earn a small amount. |
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Hello, fellow tinkerer 👋 - Happy Wednesday. I've been thinking a lot lately about "things that take up space in our brains" — and how we can preserve mental energy. When I'm anxious, I find that I flip back and forth through different apps or projects, rather than just settling into one thing. Spoiler: that does not help with anxiety and tends to make me more anxious because I go to an app, think of something I need to do... go to another app, think of something I need to do... repeat. My...
Hello, fellow tinkerer 👋 - Happy Wednesday. I'm halfway through a week I designated for "internal work" (minimal client work). I'd intended to work on a few projects — and have been doing that — but also am recording three podcast episodes, did a LinkedIn Live (view the recording here), and have seven meetings scheduled. No one but myself to blame for a jam-packed schedule. 🤣 Next time I do this, I'll be more mindful of leaving my schedule ACTUALLY free to work on projects. 1) Reflection: I...
Hello, fellow tinkerer 👋 - Happy Wednesday. I saw this Year Progress bar on Threads this week and thought, "That can't be right..." But it is. 1) Reflection: I've been thinking a lot about things that "grab my attention." I'm frequently the victim of Shiny Object Syndrome. I see something new, and I want to try it right that moment (hence, I never run out of ideas for this newsletter 😆). But I also recognize that distraction comes at a cost. I have bigger projects I want to work on. When I...